Off Menu

Over lockdown, we’ve been getting together virtually as a family on Houseparty & Zoom. Today’s “theme” was Off Menu: each person picks their ideal starter, main, dessert & side. Along with two drinks and poppadoms or bread. It doesn’t have to be a perfectly cohesive meal – it’s more about sharing your preferences and experiences. […]

Monsters

She asks to sleep with me Because she is scared of the dark And the monsters she imagines I hold her close Breathe in the smell of her hair And silently promise she’ll never know That I see monsters too And that I’m more scared than she is

Gnome sweet gnome

We have spent the loveliest afternoon and evening together. We’re both a little under the weather, so we took it really easy and snuggled up together in our pjs and watched films. This is such a rarity for us. We spend the majority of our time outside, and when we’re home she usually plays, while […]

Pride

I’m proud of my daughter. Of course I am. No more so than recently, at her first swimming lesson. We’d reached the point where I was out of my depth (excuse the pun) in terms of teaching my daughter how to swim. She can propel herself in a general direction wearing armbands, but I have […]

Poem of the Day

We were given a beautiful book of poetry for Christmas. A nature poem for each day of the year. And so began our tradition of “Poem of the Day”. We usually read it before bed, but sometimes I’ll read it to her when she’s on the loo (!), or we’ll revisit a poem when it […]

Full circle

This is a story about random acts of kindness. About twelve years ago, my mental health was at its worst. A traumatic event had left me with post traumatic stress disorder and depression. I was a mess. At some point during this year, my sister gifted me my first ever Lush bath bomb. The fragrance […]

One year on

It’s been a year since my daughter last saw her father. A year in which I’ve faced him in court too many times. A year in which I’ve also faced her questions, confusion and fear about his absence. It hasn’t been an easy year for either of us. But I’ve tried so hard to make […]

Snapshot

Not much to see here. Only Balance Gross motor skills Core strength Co-ordination Observation Drama Humour Sharing her interests Inspiring interest in another Empathy & appropriate behaviour (not wanting to scare the animals) And she thought she was just showing grandad the flamingos.